Monitor Teenage Computer Use & Detect Inappropriate Content With Care4Teen [Windows]

Ryan Dube 06-06-2012

monitor teenage computerAs my girls grow into young teens, as a father I do tend to worry quite a bit. I worry about them when they go out to a friend’s house, I worry about them when they travel, and yes, I worry about them on the Internet.


It isn’t so much a matter of whether they are going to do anything wrong intentionally, it’s a matter of what other people out there could potentially try to do – or what sorts of things they might accidentally stumble upon.

We’ve covered a number of programs and mobile apps The 5 Most Effective Cell Phone Surveillance Apps to Monitor Your Kids Concerned about your children's safety? Install one of these cell phone surveillance apps on their Android phone. Read More to monitor your kids, like Mobile Defense Mobile Defense - A Free Mobile Phone Tracking System [Android] Read More for example. However, on many of those articles where we’ve mentioned monitoring your kids, the reaction was very mixed and often very emotional. Some people felt that monitoring your teenager’s activities was okay and important, while other people raised concerns about privacy and the rights of the kids.

With all of those things in mind, I would like to point out that it’s very difficult for parents today. Kids are brilliant when it comes to the Internet and technology, and if you ask many parents what their kids are doing on that computer up in their bedroom, parents wouldn’t even know where to start looking to find out.

Monitor Teenage Computer With Care4Teen

To help those parents, there is a powerful, free online service available called Care4Teen. Care4Teen is both an application and an online service. You install the application on the PC that you want to monitor, and then you can create an account at the Care5Teen website that serves as your “dashboard” into all activities that take place on that computer.

Obviously, if you’re at all paranoid about any application that can monitor all Internet activity and running applications on a PC, this isn’t the program for you. However, if you’re a worried parent, then installing this on a single PC used exclusively by your kid or kids is a good insurance policy.


When you first install the application, you have the option to install it as an Invisible application so your kids won’t be able to uninstall the app from the computer. Also part of the installation process, you’ll identify the process with your kid’s name, and the name of the computer that you’ve installed it on.

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Once it’s installed, the first thing you’ll want to do is select the level of security that you want to enable. The restricted mode basically blocks all of the websites in the Care4Teen database where that most parents have identified as inappropriate for teens. Unrestricted mode allows everything through, but all websites are still monitored for inappropriate content – and those URL’s will get logged whenever such a webpage is identified.

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The application also has the ability to intercept SSL-encrypted information, depending on what Internet apps your teen uses, and what level of encryption those applications use. In most instances, you’ll never need to enable this feature.

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If you aren’t running the application in “invisible” mode, an icon for the app will show up in the taskbar, and any time your teen visits a website that has inappropriate content on it, a pop-up bubble informs them that they’ve just visited a questionable site. This is a notification that the website URL has been logged.

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Not only does the software log the URL of the site that was visited, but it also triggers a short recorded screencast showing you exactly what your teen was doing on the computer at the moment that the inappropriate content was recognized.

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From your online dashboard, you just click on the screencast link to watch the video in the embedded player right on the site. As you can see in the screenshot below, it isn’t just the browser window that’s recorded – it’s a full-blown, full-screen recording of the entire desktop while the alert was triggered.

Keep in mind that if your teen uses two screens, the screencast will only capture activity taking place on the primary screen.


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The dashboard is just amazing. I was actually really surprised just how much the application captures about the active computer session. From your parent dashboard, you’ll see all of the recently visited websites (yes, ALL of them), as well as the different queries typed into the search engine.

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What impressed me the most was the fact that you also get realtime feedback about all active processes that are running on the computer at any given time. That information is also logged with a timestamp for when the process was launched.

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What makes the Care4Teen service somewhat unique is the fact that it isn’t the owners of the service that decide what website are appropriate or not – it’s actually the parents themselves. If you run in restricted mode, the computer will block all websites that the majority of parents have deemed inappropriate. If you disagree, you can “allow” that website on your teen’s PC. This also serves as a vote in favor of allowing that URL in the overall database.

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When you click on the website log, you’ll also see an overview of votes for or against blocking the URL. If the “allowed” site outweighs the “block” side, the website will not be in the “banned” list. It’s interesting to see how close the votes are on some websites, like YouTube. I was surprised to see the website “” was allowed, which tells me that the parents doing the judging on Care4Teen are actually fairly liberal about what websites teens should or shouldn’t be visiting.

On the dashboard, you aren’t stuck to only realtime information or today’s data. Just click on the grid icon next to today’s date, and you can choose from the calendar to look back at activity on that computer from the past.

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As you can see, this is a very powerful – and yes, invasive – application that allows absolutely nothing to hide. As a parent, you’ll know every website visited, every inappropriate word typed, and every program run on your child’s computer.

For me, it’s really about the pre-teen years – those years when your baby is still naive and vulnerable to many things on the Internet. I would personally never run software like this for an older teen, who should be much more mature and responsible, and capable of handling the independence of free reign on the Internet.

It is a great way to let my kids have their own computer in the comfort of their bedroom, while I can still act like a responsible parent and make sure that my young child – not quite yet a teen – is well protected and secure while traveling through the highways and byways of the big, bad Internet.

Give the service a shot and let us know if it puts your mind at ease as a parent too. Would you use it to monitor teenage computer use? Share your thoughts and insights in the comments section below.

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  1. Mimi
    November 18, 2012 at 7:49 pm

    My child attends school at a virtual school and so is online literally all day. I have used the "teach and trust" approach, and I find that she is sneaking around behind my back and beginning to lie to me. As far as I'm concerned, she has lost my trust and some drastic measures need to be taken.

    Some other comments:
    Just because "all people" do something, like look at porn, doesn't mean it's acceptable to me.

    I don't base my parenting decisions on what the rest of the world thinks. My daughter is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, and I want to be sure that she is around in 10, 20, 30 years. I feel that the potential for harm to come her way is greater when I let her surf the Internet without my monitoring/blocking sites. Furthermore, she finds sites everyday that I've never even heard of! So, it's not possible for me to be up-to-date on everything that girls her age at looking at. There just isn't enough time in the day.

    Lastly, it's not for me to judge anyone on here about their parenting skills or lack of parenting skills. Some people go about things differently than me, and that is their right, I suppose. Why do people feel they have the right to judge what everyone else does?

  2. venkatp16
    June 24, 2012 at 3:59 pm

    This is very useful.. we really need this kind tools. I'll definitely try it.

    Most of the ISPs in many countries provide unrestricted internet access which allows kids,teenagers browse all unwanted stuff(mostly porn, torrents, and many)

  3. ecd4a4d35dce1b96560e85a8ce64f578
    June 17, 2012 at 4:35 pm

    Was there a noticeable impact on system speed with this installed?

    • Ryan Dube
      June 20, 2012 at 11:39 pm

      I noticed a small impact, but I wouldn't say significant. Why - are you seeing a big impact on system speed?

  4. Mihovil Pletikos
    June 7, 2012 at 2:55 pm

    and don't you think that they can easily install puppy linux or usb stick and watch porn that way?

    • Ryan Dube
      June 12, 2012 at 1:25 pm

      Maybe if their parent wasn't an IT analyst. :-)

      Seriously though, I know what you mean and I personally don't put a high level of controls on what my kids watch or do - but I do keep an occasional eye on it. They are very cool kids and are very open with it. They are cool about it because we give them a lot of freedom - until they screw up that is.

      However, there are parents where a higher level of control and monitoring is really important - so for those parents, they need to know that tools like this are out there and available.

  5. Mihovil Pletikos
    June 7, 2012 at 2:54 pm

    i think that there is better way to approach children/teens.... this way they will be forced to use different techniques to avoid this program and will make them not trust you... show them trust teach them guide them and allow some privacy... and really do you really need to know about their watching porn? you know everybody does that.... :P

  6. Pradeep
    June 7, 2012 at 9:05 am

    Wonderful application.
    Thanks for share.

  7. Shehan Nirmal
    June 7, 2012 at 8:08 am

    I accept the parental controls, but I don't accept disabling torrent downloads and file sharing...

    • Ryan Dube
      June 12, 2012 at 1:22 pm

      True - I suppose what is allowed and not allowed would be a good discussion between parent and child. I think probably some parents would feel exactly the way you do about file sharing.

  8. Sanju Meena
    June 7, 2012 at 3:10 am

    Really! Good Software Thanks For Sharing it with us...... Please Post Some More in the Feature......

  9. Arun Singh
    June 7, 2012 at 1:51 am

    like this parental control software really works properly.

  10. Laga Mahesa
    June 7, 2012 at 1:44 am

    Children should have zero expectation to privacy. Allowing that expectation reduces a parent's ability to, well, parent.

    However, that should come hand-in-hand with trust, and going all nazi (as Erni put it) is the wrong way to do it. They will find out sooner or later, and then the sneaking around begins and a whole host of associated issues spring up that have nothing to do with the PC, but originated from the lack of trust.

    No. This software looks excellent - if it were standalone. Uploading whatever your child does willy-nilly to some obscure company is irresponsible and has the potential for huge ramifications years or decades later when someone buys a used hard drive and posts the content to 4chan for teh lulz.

    • Ryan Dube
      June 7, 2012 at 2:24 am

      I can appreciate those views - and yes, trust is so important. However, I would ask anyone against using such software if they believe parents of children that get snatched up by sex offenders would agree with that sentiment?

      One Child Sex Internet Investigations Unit investigator told CNN in 2009, that using monitoring software - either internet or cell phones - simply keeps kids safe. He said, "It makes life easy for me as an investigator. It saves me hours of time, which obviously means I have more time to go out and catch offenders."

      Bottom line is that so long as there is that danger out there, I agree with parents that choose to use this software. It's not no much a way to block kids from accessing the Internet (although it does have that capability if you have younger kids), but in my opinion the appropriate use of this kind of software is to block the "Internet" from attacking the kids.

      Doing that requires keeping them off of sites where they are most likely to come across dangerous elements of the Internet, and the first step to doing that is monitoring all web activity. Unfortunately, there's no easier way to stay vigilant as a parent against those dangers.

      • Laga Mahesa
        June 7, 2012 at 5:50 pm

        Oh, monitoring I've no issue with - even uploading, provided it's just base URLs.

        Trying to keep children safe online by blinkering them is like jumping down the rabbit hole. The dark zones of the internet pretty much outweigh the light zones, and pretty soon it would become a full time job. I'd prefer to just straight out say, "Hey look, this is here and that is there. Bad things happen in this area and very bad people hang out in that area. Be aware and keep your guard up. Come get me if you find anything funny."

  11. alexander
    June 7, 2012 at 1:37 am

    this software only shows you dont trust your kids, and creates a gap between you.
    you cant control other human beings, the best you can do is teach them to do the right thing, and hope they listen.
    if they want to go around the monitoring software, they will.

    besides... keeping your teenage boy from watching porn, thats just cruel!

  12. Ernie
    June 6, 2012 at 10:50 pm

    One has to be really bad parent to use this. And the stealth mode... Nazi methods.

    • Ryan Dube
      June 12, 2012 at 1:20 pm

      I'm not sure the authorities would agree with you. Police regularly visit schools and hold conferences for parents, specifically to advise them how important it is to use monitoring software like this, for the child's safety.