Do You Share Passwords With Your Spouse? [MakeUseOf Poll]

Last week’s poll invited the dreamers of you to answer this question: Where would you live if you could freelance online from anywhere? The poll answers were strictly divided into certain types of areas, but the comments led to some very interesting specific locations and reasons for your choices.

The results clearly tell us that if MakeUseOf readers had online freelance work and wi-fi wherever it’s needed, most of you would hit the beach or an island. That’s 35% of MUO responders heading straight for the sun and sand. Sounds lovely, but I’m not sure you’ll get much work done there! Almost with a perfect draw for second place came two very different locations: ‘Mountains’ on 20% and ‘Busy City’ on 19%. This tells us that MUO readers are pretty equally divided when it comes to the sociable and the introverted: Half of you want to live it up and the other half want to get away from it all. ‘Remote Village’ on 10% was slightly more popular than the 6% of votes for ‘Tropical/Forest’ area. However, after reading the comments, this seems like it’s because few people believe they’ll get good internet access in a forest. Love the priorities, MakeUseOf readers!

Full results and this week’s poll after the jump.


As you can see, all those cafés in beach towns had better start improving their wi-fi access for the influx of freelancer workers coming their way!

Now, enough with the dreaming and on to something a tad more serious.

This week’s poll question is: Do you share passwords with your spouse/partner?

Please note: I’d normally just say “partner”, but I didn’t want anyone getting confused with business partners. By saying spouse/partner I intend to cover all manner of serious romantic relationships where both parties love and trust each other completely.

Sharing passwords is a pretty serious security issue. I doubt that any security specialist would ever recommend sharing any passwords for any reason, yet so many couples do it anyway. The consequences of shared passwords (even without considering a potential break-up) are numerous and in some cases quite dire. But somehow, when you’ve come to trust someone so much, it seems far less important to keep these things secret.

So, let’s see what the general attitude is among MakeUseOf readers. I’d be very surprised if many of you are as open with passwords as the general public are.

Have you shared your most important passwords? Just a few? Which passwords are most important to you? Or, are you of the “I love you, but not THAT much” security-cautious variety? Do tell!

When considering your answers to this poll, if you are single or with someone you don’t entirely trust, please consider what your stance would be if you did have a partner you trusted completely. Would you share passwords then?

Feel free to elaborate on your answer a little in the comments – we realise a complicated question can never be answered completely by a simple poll choice.

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Angela Alcorn

Ange is an Internet Studies & Journalism graduate who spends way too much time messing with social networks (see AngelaAlcorn.com or @smange).

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  • slouch

    We have nothing to hide from each other so why keep secrets.

    • sephiroth

      The truth, slouch, tell the truth. :P

      • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

        Heh. :P

    • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

      My husband and I are the same. But, it can lead to trouble around birthday time. :)

  • slouch

    We have nothing to hide from each other so why keep secrets.

  • sephiroth

    The truth, slouch, tell the truth. :P

  • Angela Alcorn

    My husband and I are the same. But, it can lead to trouble around birthday time. :)

  • Angela Alcorn

    Heh. :P

  • http://twitter.com/Thragor Mark Michaelis

    We share all passwords… and I even think it’s a must in case your spouse/partner is not available (for whatever reason – hopefully not a permanent one).

    By the way: This poll just raises the next question: What will happen if someone like me (with multiple logins anywhere) dies one day? Where will all the spammy and not so spammy mails go, etc.? Will my net identity live forever on? – Not a nice question though, but this question lead to the decision to share passwords with my spouse.

  • Mark Michaelis

    We share all passwords… and I even think it’s a must in case your spouse/partner is not available (for whatever reason – hopefully not a permanent one).

    By the way: This poll just raises the next question: What will happen if someone like me (with multiple logins anywhere) dies one day? Where will all the spammy and not so spammy mails go, etc.? Will my net identity live forever on? – Not a nice question though, but this question lead to the decision to share passwords with my spouse.

  • Angela Alcorn

    It’s definitely a good reason for the case of sharing passwords. The next trick is making sure your spouse has detailed instructions so they know exactly which accounts are important and why (Not just email – Domain management? Paypal? Adsense?).

  • Elvin

    i’m staying with my gf. but i never share my passwords with anyone. :)
    she is more like Anti technology although she loves her iPhone & macbook.
    the problem is that she might be getting jealous about some chick that follows me on facebook or twitter (she doesn’t have any FB or twitter) . i don’t want to share those things with her… or to try to explain her. it’s more complicated…

    • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

      Oh yes, too true! You can’t go sharing passwords with someone who either:
      a) Might break something accidentally.
      b) Doesn’t trust you.

      Also, never underestimate a suspicious girlfriend. Best clear the air quickly so she knows where she stands – seriously!

  • Elvin

    i’m staying with my gf. but i never share my passwords with anyone. :)
    she is more like Anti technology although she loves her iPhone & macbook.
    the problem is that she might be getting jealous about some chick that follows me on facebook or twitter (she doesn’t have any FB or twitter) . i don’t want to share those things with her… or to try to explain her. it’s more complicated…

  • Aibek

    Actually, we addressed this in couple of of article in the past. Check out following links:

    - What Happens To Your Email and Social Networking Accounts When You Die?
    - Legacy Locker – Life Insurance for Your Online Identity

  • Angela Alcorn

    Oh yes, too true! You can’t go sharing passwords with someone who either:
    a) Might break something accidentally.
    b) Doesn’t trust you.

    Also, never underestimate a suspicious girlfriend. Best clear the air quickly so she knows where she stands – seriously!

  • http://www.darchis.be/eric/blog/ Eric Darchis

    I’m lucky enough to have a gf who knows how to be careful with passwords. She’s using Firefox with master password and everything.

    • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

      She probably also knows how not to break anything while logged in then, too. Useful!. :)

  • Eric Darchis

    I’m lucky enough to have a gf who knows how to be careful with passwords. She’s using Firefox with master password and everything.

  • http://www.gmailhacks.net JuliannTrott

    I use the same password for all the stuff not important (like ebay, opodo,..) that my partner knows, but for important ones like emails and social network he don’t need to know

    • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

      I think a lot of people share at least this much.

  • JuliannTrott

    I use the same password for all the stuff not important (like ebay, opodo,..) that my partner knows, but for important ones like emails and social network he don’t need to know

  • Angela Alcorn

    She probably also knows how not to break anything while logged in then, too. Useful!. :)

  • Angela Alcorn

    I think a lot of people share at least this much.

  • curts

    Not that I’m not willing to share all my passwords with my spouse, but with every website wanting a user ID and password, it’s just too many. So my answer is really, some: the important stuff like banking & retirement funds and the master pasword to the password safe in case she ever needs to know the rest. The more important question is whether you have documented all the important passwords for your estate in case something unexpected happened to you?

    • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

      Documenting the accounts for the estate definitely helps if something happens to you both at once.

  • curts

    Not that I’m not willing to share all my passwords with my spouse, but with every website wanting a user ID and password, it’s just too many. So my answer is really, some: the important stuff like banking & retirement funds and the master pasword to the password safe in case she ever needs to know the rest. The more important question is whether you have documented all the important passwords for your estate in case something unexpected happened to you?

  • http://reignofmadness.wordpress.com/ Araxhiel Khy

    No, I don’t share them… I had some (extreme) bad experiencies with sharing passwords with her and I don’t want to have such experiencies again…

    (Mainly… because hers super-mega-ultra-hyper-jealous personality)

    Best Regards!

    • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

      Ooh, sounds nasty. Maybe she also needs a little reassurance that you’re not running off any time soon? ;)

      • http://reignofmadness.wordpress.com/ Araxhiel Khy

        Maybe … but in the meantime … I am exercising to run … as “Usain Bolt” XD(Thank the gods … that she did not know how to use Ubuntu … and much less “read” when I write the passwords …)Best Regards…

  • Araxhiel Khy

    No, I don’t share them… I had some (extreme) bad experiencies with sharing passwords with her and I don’t want to have such experiencies again…

    (Mainly… because hers super-mega-ultra-hyper-jealous personality)

    Best Regards!

  • http://homework.never-ends.net FekketCantenel

    I often need to log into his bank account to straighten out overdraws and fees, so I know his default username/password. However, he doesn’t know mine purely because it hasn’t come up.

    • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

      It’s an attitude of general trust though. :)

  • FekketCantenel

    I often need to log into his bank account to straighten out overdraws and fees, so I know his default username/password. However, he doesn’t know mine purely because it hasn’t come up.

  • Angela Alcorn

    Documenting the accounts for the estate definitely helps if something happens to you both at once.

  • Angela Alcorn

    Ooh, sounds nasty. Maybe she also needs a little reassurance that you’re not running off any time soon? ;)

  • Angela Alcorn

    It’s an attitude of general trust though. :)

  • Araxhiel Khy

    Maybe … but in the meantime … I am exercising to run … as “Usain Bolt” XD

    (Thank the gods … that she did not know how to use Ubuntu … and much less “read” when I write the passwords …)

    Best Regards…

  • http://www.fspressonline.org Trinae Ross

    My spouse and I know each other’s passwords. We feel that it helps establish a foundation of trust between us. It is one thing to know the passwords, but another thing to use them without consent. While I can go in my spouse’s accounts because I know the passwords, I wouldn’t without letting her know I needed to, because I respect her privacy.

    • http://netsavoir.com/ Angela Alcorn

      Sounds like you two have a good system.

  • Trinae Ross

    My spouse and I know each other’s passwords. We feel that it helps establish a foundation of trust between us. It is one thing to know the passwords, but another thing to use them without consent. While I can go in my spouse’s accounts because I know the passwords, I wouldn’t without letting her know I needed to, because I respect her privacy.

  • Angela Alcorn

    Sounds like you two have a good system.