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		<title>By: Mimi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mimi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Nov 2012 19:49:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My child attends school at a virtual school and so is online literally all day.  I have used the &quot;teach and trust&quot; approach, and I find that she is sneaking around behind my back and beginning to lie to me.  As far as I&#039;m concerned, she has lost my trust and some drastic measures need to be taken.  

Some other comments:
Just because &quot;all people&quot; do something, like look at porn, doesn&#039;t mean it&#039;s acceptable to me. 

I don&#039;t base my parenting decisions on what the rest of the world thinks.  My daughter is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, and I want to be sure that she is around in 10, 20, 30 years.  I feel that the potential for harm to come her way is greater when I let her surf the Internet without my monitoring/blocking sites.  Furthermore, she finds sites everyday that I&#039;ve never even heard of!  So, it&#039;s not possible for me to be up-to-date on everything that girls her age at looking at.  There just isn&#039;t enough time in the day.  

Lastly, it&#039;s not for me to judge anyone on here about their parenting skills or lack of parenting skills.  Some people go about things differently than me, and that is their right, I suppose.  Why do people feel they have the right to judge what everyone else does?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My child attends school at a virtual school and so is online literally all day.  I have used the &#8220;teach and trust&#8221; approach, and I find that she is sneaking around behind my back and beginning to lie to me.  As far as I&#8217;m concerned, she has lost my trust and some drastic measures need to be taken.  </p>
<p>Some other comments:<br />
Just because &#8220;all people&#8221; do something, like look at porn, doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s acceptable to me. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t base my parenting decisions on what the rest of the world thinks.  My daughter is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, and I want to be sure that she is around in 10, 20, 30 years.  I feel that the potential for harm to come her way is greater when I let her surf the Internet without my monitoring/blocking sites.  Furthermore, she finds sites everyday that I&#8217;ve never even heard of!  So, it&#8217;s not possible for me to be up-to-date on everything that girls her age at looking at.  There just isn&#8217;t enough time in the day.  </p>
<p>Lastly, it&#8217;s not for me to judge anyone on here about their parenting skills or lack of parenting skills.  Some people go about things differently than me, and that is their right, I suppose.  Why do people feel they have the right to judge what everyone else does?</p>
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		<title>By: venkatp16</title>
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		<dc:creator>venkatp16</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 15:59:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is very useful.. we really need this kind tools.  I&#039;ll definitely try it.

Most of the ISPs in many countries provide unrestricted internet access which allows kids,teenagers browse all unwanted stuff(mostly porn, torrents, and many)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is very useful.. we really need this kind tools.  I&#8217;ll definitely try it.</p>
<p>Most of the ISPs in many countries provide unrestricted internet access which allows kids,teenagers browse all unwanted stuff(mostly porn, torrents, and many)</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan Dube</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan Dube</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jun 2012 23:39:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I noticed a small impact, but I wouldn&#039;t say significant. Why - are you seeing a big impact on system speed?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I noticed a small impact, but I wouldn&#8217;t say significant. Why &#8211; are you seeing a big impact on system speed?</p>
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		<title>By: ecd4a4d35dce1b96560e85a8ce64f578</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2012 16:35:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Was there a noticeable impact on system speed with this installed?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Was there a noticeable impact on system speed with this installed?</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan Dube</title>
		<link>http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/monitor-your-teen-automatically-detect-inappropriate-content-with-care4teen-windows/#comment-1180766</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan Dube</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jun 2012 13:25:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Maybe if their parent wasn&#039;t an IT analyst. :-)

Seriously though, I know what you mean and I personally don&#039;t put a high level of controls on what my kids watch or do - but I do keep an occasional eye on it. They are very cool kids and are very open with it. They are cool about it because we give them a lot of freedom - until they screw up that is.

However, there are parents where a higher level of control and monitoring is really important - so for those parents, they need to know that tools like this are out there and available.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe if their parent wasn&#8217;t an IT analyst. :-)</p>
<p>Seriously though, I know what you mean and I personally don&#8217;t put a high level of controls on what my kids watch or do &#8211; but I do keep an occasional eye on it. They are very cool kids and are very open with it. They are cool about it because we give them a lot of freedom &#8211; until they screw up that is.</p>
<p>However, there are parents where a higher level of control and monitoring is really important &#8211; so for those parents, they need to know that tools like this are out there and available.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan Dube</title>
		<link>http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/monitor-your-teen-automatically-detect-inappropriate-content-with-care4teen-windows/#comment-1180764</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan Dube</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jun 2012 13:22:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[True - I suppose what is allowed and not allowed would be a good discussion between parent and child. I think probably some parents would feel exactly the way you do about file sharing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>True &#8211; I suppose what is allowed and not allowed would be a good discussion between parent and child. I think probably some parents would feel exactly the way you do about file sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan Dube</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryan Dube</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jun 2012 13:20:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m not sure the authorities would agree with you. Police regularly visit schools and hold conferences for parents, specifically to advise them how important it is to use monitoring software like this, for the child&#039;s safety.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not sure the authorities would agree with you. Police regularly visit schools and hold conferences for parents, specifically to advise them how important it is to use monitoring software like this, for the child&#8217;s safety.</p>
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		<title>By: Laga Mahesa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laga Mahesa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 17:50:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh, monitoring I&#039;ve no issue with - even uploading, provided it&#039;s just base URLs.

Trying to keep children safe online by blinkering them is like jumping down the rabbit hole. The dark zones of the internet pretty much outweigh the light zones, and pretty soon it would become a full time job. I&#039;d prefer to just straight out say, &quot;Hey look, this is here and that is there. Bad things happen in this area and very bad people hang out in that area. Be aware and keep your guard up. Come get me if you find anything funny.&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, monitoring I&#8217;ve no issue with &#8211; even uploading, provided it&#8217;s just base URLs.</p>
<p>Trying to keep children safe online by blinkering them is like jumping down the rabbit hole. The dark zones of the internet pretty much outweigh the light zones, and pretty soon it would become a full time job. I&#8217;d prefer to just straight out say, &#8220;Hey look, this is here and that is there. Bad things happen in this area and very bad people hang out in that area. Be aware and keep your guard up. Come get me if you find anything funny.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Mihovil Pletikos</title>
		<link>http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/monitor-your-teen-automatically-detect-inappropriate-content-with-care4teen-windows/#comment-1179844</link>
		<dc:creator>Mihovil Pletikos</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 14:55:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[and don&#039;t you think that they can easily install puppy linux or usb stick and watch porn that way?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>and don&#8217;t you think that they can easily install puppy linux or usb stick and watch porn that way?</p>
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		<title>By: Mihovil Pletikos</title>
		<link>http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/monitor-your-teen-automatically-detect-inappropriate-content-with-care4teen-windows/#comment-1179843</link>
		<dc:creator>Mihovil Pletikos</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 14:54:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i think that there is better way to approach children/teens.... this way they will be forced to use different techniques to avoid this program and will make them not trust you... show them trust teach them guide them and allow some privacy... and really do you really need to know about their watching porn? you know everybody does that.... :P]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think that there is better way to approach children/teens&#8230;. this way they will be forced to use different techniques to avoid this program and will make them not trust you&#8230; show them trust teach them guide them and allow some privacy&#8230; and really do you really need to know about their watching porn? you know everybody does that&#8230;. :P</p>
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		<title>By: Pradeep</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pradeep</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 09:05:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wonderful application. 
Thanks for share.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful application.<br />
Thanks for share.</p>
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		<title>By: Shehan Nirmal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shehan Nirmal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 08:08:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I accept the parental controls, but I don&#039;t accept disabling torrent downloads and file sharing...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I accept the parental controls, but I don&#8217;t accept disabling torrent downloads and file sharing&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Sanju Meena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sanju Meena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 03:10:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Really! Good Software Thanks For Sharing it with us...... Please Post Some More in the Feature......]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really! Good Software Thanks For Sharing it with us&#8230;&#8230; Please Post Some More in the Feature&#8230;&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ryan Dube</title>
		<link>http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/monitor-your-teen-automatically-detect-inappropriate-content-with-care4teen-windows/#comment-1179724</link>
		<dc:creator>Ryan Dube</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 02:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can appreciate those views - and yes, trust is so important. However, I would ask anyone against using such software if they believe parents of children that get snatched up by sex offenders would agree with that sentiment?

One Child Sex Internet Investigations Unit investigator told CNN in 2009, that using monitoring software - either internet or cell phones - simply keeps kids safe. He said, &quot;It makes life easy for me as an investigator. It saves me hours of time, which obviously means I have more time to go out and catch offenders.&quot;

Bottom line is that so long as there is that danger out there, I agree with parents that choose to use this software. It&#039;s not no much a way to block kids from accessing the Internet (although it does have that capability if you have younger kids), but in my opinion the appropriate use of this kind of software is to block the &quot;Internet&quot; from attacking the kids. 

Doing that requires keeping them off of sites where they are most likely to come across dangerous elements of the Internet, and the first step to doing that is monitoring all web activity. Unfortunately, there&#039;s no easier way to stay vigilant as a parent against those dangers.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can appreciate those views &#8211; and yes, trust is so important. However, I would ask anyone against using such software if they believe parents of children that get snatched up by sex offenders would agree with that sentiment?</p>
<p>One Child Sex Internet Investigations Unit investigator told CNN in 2009, that using monitoring software &#8211; either internet or cell phones &#8211; simply keeps kids safe. He said, &#8220;It makes life easy for me as an investigator. It saves me hours of time, which obviously means I have more time to go out and catch offenders.&#8221;</p>
<p>Bottom line is that so long as there is that danger out there, I agree with parents that choose to use this software. It&#8217;s not no much a way to block kids from accessing the Internet (although it does have that capability if you have younger kids), but in my opinion the appropriate use of this kind of software is to block the &#8220;Internet&#8221; from attacking the kids. </p>
<p>Doing that requires keeping them off of sites where they are most likely to come across dangerous elements of the Internet, and the first step to doing that is monitoring all web activity. Unfortunately, there&#8217;s no easier way to stay vigilant as a parent against those dangers.</p>
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		<title>By: Arun Singh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Arun Singh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jun 2012 01:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[like this parental control software really works properly.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>like this parental control software really works properly.</p>
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