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how to chat on facebookFrom the first days of public Internet, it’s been a long and winding road for chat. From Web chats that were nothing but forums, to ICQ and IRC, to MSN Messenger and Google Talk, and finally – the chat most of us use today – Facebook chat.

To me, chat’s evolution is a bit sad, really. As old as ICQ and IRC look today, they were both chat protocols and programs I really enjoyed using. Today, most of my chats take place on my mobile, and if I chat on desktop at all, it’s only Google Talk and Facebook chat – there’s simply no one to chat to anywhere else.

The really bad part of all this is that Facebook chat is horrible. In fact, it’s pretty much unusable. I hate the chat sidebar, I dislike the little chat windows, and I keep missing messages because who keeps their eyes on Facebook all the time? Not to mention the fact you have to keep the thing open all day if you want to use the chat. When it comes to Facebook, I have to disagree with my colleague Aaron who says we don’t need desktop chat clients anymore Why You Don't Need Desktop Chat Clients Anymore Why You Don't Need Desktop Chat Clients Anymore Remember the days of MSN Messenger and AIM? Those two were the first chat clients I ever used. Once I started using them more and more, it became cumbersome to switch between clients and contact... Read More . Facebook chat can be much better utilized and enjoyed on desktop, and there are several good ways to do this.

Official Facebook Messenger [Windows]

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Facebook Messenger comes either as a window you can move around and resize, or a static sidebar you can dock to the right side of your screen. Aside from chatting, it’s also a convenient way to access your Facebook notifications, friend requests, and news ticker.

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For some reason, Facebook Messenger does not officially support Windows 8, and I experienced some weird flashing on my Windows 8 machine when double clicking a contact. Things behaved normally when I opened my chat windows with just a single click. Hopefully, these bugs are limited to Windows 8, but feel free to let me know what you experienced with Facebook Messenger.

Skype [Windows, Mac]

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Skype, which used to be a nice and lean voice over IP client, has become much more than that since its purchase by Microsoft. Whether you like the changes or not, one of them makes it a viable solution for those looking for a Facebook chat client. The newest versions of Skype for Windows and Mac offer Facebook integration, which adds all your Facebook friends to your Skype contact list, letting you chat and video chat with them through Skype’s interface.

To add Facebook to your Skype contacts, click the “All” dropdown menu in your Contacts tab, and choose “Facebook“. Click “Connect to Facebook“, enter your Facebook credentials, and you’re pretty much set. All your Facebook contacts will now be available through Skype, and chatting with them will feel and look exactly like chatting with Skype contacts.

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Note that this feature is not available on Skype for Windows 8 (a.k.a Skype for Metro), and on Skype for Linux.

fTalk [Windows, Mac]

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fTalk is a Windows client dedicated solely to Facebook, and if you miss the old days of IM clients and animated emoticons, you’re going to love the somewhat retro fTalk experience. fTalk is a desktop client, but it’s also a Facebook app, meaning you’re going to have to grant it access to your Facebook account when you first log in. What that’s done, you can use fTalk to chat with online friends, and if they also use fTalk, with offline friends as well.

The app supports pop-up and sound notification, which you can control and tweak from the preferences. You can also set notifications to show only for friends in your Close Friends list, and thus minimize the interruption these notification may cause and limit them to people you really care about.

But fTalk is more than just a chat client. You can post status updates right from the app using the “Share a new status” box at the bottom, and even browse your friends’ photo albums, and like, share, and comment on photos.

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fTalk is a pretty comprehensive client, and provides a great Facebook substitute for when you don’t feel like keeping your browser open. Read a full review of fTalk Create a Better Facebook Chat Experience With fTalk for Desktop [Windows] Create a Better Facebook Chat Experience With fTalk for Desktop [Windows] Facebook Chat has become an important tool for keeping in touch with friends. In fact, I would go so far as to say that in comparison to the other features on Facebook (news feed, photo... Read More .

Any IM Client With Jabber Support

There’s a large number of IM clients that support Facebook’s protocol. Pidgin Combine All Your IM Accounts In One Application With Pidgin [Windows & Linux] Combine All Your IM Accounts In One Application With Pidgin [Windows & Linux] Pidgin is a free instant-messaging client that combines all your IM accounts in one simple application. Instead of running several different IM clients that display ads and eat up memory, just use Pidgin. All your... Read More , Miranda IM, Adium Adium - The Ultimate Instant Messaging App [Mac] Adium - The Ultimate Instant Messaging App [Mac] Start using the best instant messaging client out there for Mac. It's called Adium, it connects to everything and there's no reason for not using it. Okay, there's one reason - Adium does not support... Read More , Trillian Easily Connect With Friends Using Trillian 5 [Windows & Mac] Easily Connect With Friends Using Trillian 5 [Windows & Mac] We often have some friends who use one service while others use another. The simple answer is to be present on all the services your friends are on so you don't leave anyone out, but... Read More , and iMessage Bye Bye iChat: Getting Started With The New OS X Messages App [Mountain Lion] Bye Bye iChat: Getting Started With The New OS X Messages App [Mountain Lion] As the dust surrounding Apple’s OS X Mountain Lion release settles, it’s time to evaluate whether those killer features announced earlier this year are really that good. For me the most exciting addition when I... Read More are only some of the available options. The process of setting up Facebook chat is very similar across these different clients, so once you know the basics, you can figure out how to add it to your favorite client.

  • Locate where you can add new accounts in your client.
  • For protocol, choose Jabber or XMPP.
  • Enter your Facebook credentials (use username, not email).
  • For domain, enter chat.facebook.com. If you need to enter a server, this is it as well.
  • For Jabber ID, enter <username>@chat.facebook.com
  • For port, enter 5222

This should have you covered for almost any client that supports Facebook. If you get into trouble, you may find solutions in the specific app’s help or FAQ, but if you follow these directions, everything should work  out fine.

You can also check out another Windows program called FacebookMessenger, which is very similar to Facebook’s official app. Note that this program requires Java Runtime Environment 1.4.0 in order to run.

Bottom Line

Personally, I opted for Miranda IM several years ago, and there’s no way I’d be using Facebook chat without it. No matter which solution you go for, if you use Facebook chat at all, get ready for some serious improvement in your chatting life. Beware, though, once you go desktop, you can’t go back!

Do you know of an excellent Facebook chat client I missed? Do you want to make a case for Facebook’s Web chat interface? Add your thoughts below.

  1. samanta
    July 4, 2013 at 10:01 am

    would you please accept me to take part in your group?

  2. Victor Ong
    April 10, 2013 at 6:10 pm

    I used my integrated chat on Windows 8. I would miss it if I downgraded to Windows 7..

  3. Daniel Joshua
    April 10, 2013 at 1:13 pm

    How about Nimbuzz and eBuddy?

    • Yaara Lancet
      April 11, 2013 at 9:02 am

      Does eBuddy have a desktop client? I thought it was either a Web app or a mobile app.

      Anyway, good suggestions, thanks!

      • Daniel Joshua
        April 11, 2013 at 2:04 pm

        I am sorry. I forgot eBuddy does not have any desktop client. But you can try this.

        Alternatives to Downloading eBuddy on PC

        While there is not (as of yet) an eBuddy download for PC or Mac, users can bookmark the eBuddy Web Messenger to ensure quick access to your favorite contacts.

        To bookmark eBuddy on PC or Mac, follow these web browser shortkeys:

        Chrome: Ctrl+D (Windows and Chrome OS); ?-D (Mac)
        Internet Explorer: Click "Add to Favorites."
        Firefox: Ctrl+D
        Safari: Click "Add Bookmark" from "Bookmarks" Menu

      • Daniel Joshua
        April 11, 2013 at 2:06 pm

        Nice post by the way :)

        Good job Yaara!

        • Yaara Lancet
          April 12, 2013 at 11:39 am

          Thanks Daniel, and thanks for posting the bookmarking instructions. :)

        • Kiko
          April 24, 2013 at 11:07 pm

          And you can make it even more accessible if you choose the "pin tab" option. This way you'll always have the tab opened, even when you restart your browser :)

  4. Dave Bakker
    April 10, 2013 at 12:35 pm

    NIce to read about thes options. I personally , use Instantbird desktop client ( http://instantbird.com/ ) which allows FB chat, Skype, Google chat, MSN chat and many more all in one client. On my iphone and Ipad i use IMO ( https://imo.im/ ) for all the chats, and this also works great.

    • Yaara Lancet
      April 11, 2013 at 9:00 am

      Thanks Dave! Instantbird looks like a nice multi-protocol IM option, I don't think I ever tried it.

  5. Tic Tac
    April 10, 2013 at 9:59 am

    I'm prefer to NOT USE the Skype and official FB Messenger. :/

    • Yaara Lancet
      April 11, 2013 at 8:59 am

      Well, you don't have to! There are plenty of other options, as detailed in the post and in the comments.

  6. Elmar Panzenberger
    April 10, 2013 at 6:50 am

    Thunderbird - you can access Facebook chat even in your preferred mailclient :)

    • Yaara Lancet
      April 10, 2013 at 7:13 am

      It's been so long since I used Thunderbird, I didn't even know it had IM capabilities. Good to know. Thanks!

  7. Gerard de Goede
    April 9, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    I missed my favourite chat Client Digsby.
    Instant Messaging

    One combined buddy list for all your AIM, MSN, Yahoo, ICQ, Google Talk, Jabber,
    and Facebook Chat Accounts.
    Manage multiple conversations with tabbed conversation windows.
    You can drag tabs out into their own windows for important conversations.

    Email

    Manage your Hotmail, Gmail, Yahoo Mail, AOL/AIM Mail, IMAP, and POP accounts
    right from digsby.

    Social Networking

    Stay up to date with everything happening on your Facebook, Twitter,
    MySpace and LinkedIn accounts.
    Receive alerts of events such as new friend requests, messages, group invites, etc.
    The social network InfoBox gives you a real time NewsFeed of what your friends
    are up to. Everything from new photos, to status updates, to upcoming birthdays is j
    Set your Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn status right from Digsby.

    http://www.digsby.com

    • Yaara Lancet
      April 10, 2013 at 7:11 am

      Thanks, Gerard!

      • Gerard de Goede
        April 10, 2013 at 11:24 am

        Your welcome. ;)

  8. Chris Marcoe
    April 9, 2013 at 5:26 pm

    I take the easy route. If someone decides they want to chat, I give them my phone number and tell them to call me.

    The only time I used IRC was WAY back in the day. And that was mostly chat rooms, IIRC.

    Also, thank you for the great article.

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