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I must admit I’m a little addicted to Facebook. Only a little, and certainly less than I used to be, but the need to log in often throughout the day in order to see what all of my Facebook friends have been up to is still present. I say Facebook friends because the idea of friendship has changed thanks to social networks, whether for better or worse.

I’m not alone in being just slightly addicted to Facebook, or of social networks in general. So much so that Internet Addiction Disorder is a recognized condition with its own illustrative infographic Facebook Psychology - Is Addiction Affecting Our Minds? [INFOGRAPHIC] Facebook Psychology - Is Addiction Affecting Our Minds? [INFOGRAPHIC] Internet Addiction Disorder (otherwise known as Facebookalitis) is set to become the big psychological disorder of the 21st century - and it seems we have mostly Facebook to thank for that. Thanks to the social... Read More . This led me to wonder how the MakeUseOf readership uses Facebook, and in particular whether Mark Zuckerberg and co. have enabled individuals to expand their groups of friends.

How Many Facebook Friends Do You Have?

We asked you, How Many Facebook Friends Do You Have? The response was absolutely phenomenal, with the article garnering well over 100 comments. Every one of the people who responded shared a number with us; those numbers ranging from 0 (for people who don’t use Facebook) to 5,000 (the limit imposed by Facebook).

The average number of Facebook friends maintained by MakeUseOf readers is 386 (yes, I actually did the math). This is a much higher number than the 120 Facebook friends averaged across the whole of the social networking site. It’s also a much higher number than the 150 that is Dunbar’s number, which Saikat previously explored How Many Friends On Facebook Is Too Much? [Opinion] How Many Friends On Facebook Is Too Much? [Opinion] I never thought that we would be so ‘obsessed’ with friends. Collecting friends seems to be a fad that refuses to die down thanks to social networks. When we talk about social networks, we usually... Read More , and which Arron Walker also mentioned in the comments.

As someone who currently has 80 Facebook friends, and who has never had more than around 120, I find it hard to understand those who have thousands of friends. I doubt I have even met 5,000 people in my lifetime, let alone known them well enough to add them to Facebook. It’s clear that some treat collecting Facebook friends as a game, and that the vast majority of those on their lists are nothing more than vague acquaintances. But that’s just my opinion.


Comment Of The Week

Great comments came in from the likes of Lisa Santika Onggrid, Márcio Guerra, Samuel Almeida, and Douglas Mutay, to name just a few. Comment of the week goes to Rajaa Chowdhury, who won with this comment:

A few months back, my Facebook Friends count was almost touching 700, and coupled with almost 250 like pages and subscriptions, Facebook for me was almost resembling Rudyard Kipling’s Junglebook. So one day I decided that sanity need be restored, and start and un-friending the so called acquaintances. I guess the count of friends came down from 689 in the morning to 36 in the by the evening. Also another day, I did a similar exercise with Like Pages. Today my Friends count stand at 44 including my relatives and my Like pages stand to 6 out of which one is MakeUseOf page. Has of be a very special page to withstand the onslaught. Sanity restored!!!

This comment won purely for reminding us all that a good spring clean is sometimes needed, even when it comes to Facebook friends. Dropping from 689 to 36 may be extreme, but I heartily applaud the effort.

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  1. Arron Walker
    November 15, 2012 at 4:54 pm

    Nearly tripped over when I read my name o_o I was sitting down of course, so I couldn't actually trip. Hadn't realised you had an article exploring it, interesting read, I was expecting clear cut number being an opinion article, but it was open ended. And yeah, that kind of spring cleaning is equivalent of burning down your house, then walking of with your personal affects.

    • Dave Parrack
      November 15, 2012 at 6:10 pm

      Saikat's article was an interesting read, for sure. Ha, that's a good analogy. In which case Rajaa only saved his most treasured possessions.

      • Rajaa Chowdhury
        November 16, 2012 at 9:55 am

        Aptly put Dave, and when the house burns down, the first thing you think of is saving your LIFE and I did save my LIFE in the process. :)

  2. Félix S. De Jesús
    November 15, 2012 at 4:10 pm

    So Sincere the comment. Most of people have friends for filling, like a dental filling.

  3. Lisa Santika Onggrid
    November 15, 2012 at 5:00 am

    Rajaa does deserve that. He's the epitome of spring cleaning. Now if he wants to share his method so we can take some pages out of his book.

    • Dave Parrack
      November 15, 2012 at 6:08 pm

      I can only assume the method is to save the people you really like and then delete everyone else... I wouldn't have the guts to do such a thing!

    • Rajaa Chowdhury
      November 16, 2012 at 9:54 am

      I think the two attributes of the methodology used are Patience (believe me, you will need a load of it, specially midway of unfriending people, but you would need the hard resolve to complete the process) and Guts (I am sure, I must of ticked off a few people in the process and they must be pretty cross with me but as says time is the best healer and they must have forgotten the incident by now). :) :P