Your Apple/Android/Windows Hatred Is Irrelevant, Give It Up
Pinterest Stumbleupon Whatsapp
Advertisement

How often have you seen comments like “I hate Apple products”, or “Anyone who buys an Android phone is an idiot”? What about something along the lines of “Facebook sucks”?

It’s probably all too often. There is a lot of entirely irrational hate towards tech companies and their products, meaning the most innocuous article can start a full on flamewar Worse Than Hitler: Why Do Flamewars Happen? Worse Than Hitler: Why Do Flamewars Happen? Why are flamewars so common on today's web, and is it really a new phenomenon?  Read More I’ve personally been accused of taking money from both Apple How James Bond Made Me Buy an Apple Watch How James Bond Made Me Buy an Apple Watch Bond has always had a thing for watches. Indeed, some of the best gadgets Bond has ever used have been timepieces. Which means he would buy an Apple Watch. As will I. Read More and Microsoft Stop Bashing Microsoft: 5 Ways In Which They're Awesome Stop Bashing Microsoft: 5 Ways In Which They're Awesome Microsoft doesn't always get fair treatment. When it comes down to it, they're a pretty awesome company. There's been enough Microsoft bashing, now it's time for some love. Read More  in comments below my articles. The supposed evidence for my breach of ethics? I expressed positive opinions about the companies.

Let’s take a look at how people come to hate tech companies, and why they’re wrong to do so.

Fundamentally Wrong

The fundamental attribution error (FAE) is one of the strongest human biases, and it has an incredibly powerful effect on day to day life. People tend to attribute their success to their own positive characteristics, and their failures to external factors – all while assuming the inverse about everyone else.

So, if I win a photography competition I assume it’s down to my skill as an artist, while if someone else wins its because they were lucky – or because they’re friends with one of the judges.

KanyeComment

One of the major effects of FAE: people are terrible at understanding the rationale for other people’s choices. Just have a look at the comments on my article on why it’s okay that some Kanye West fans don’t know who Paul McCartney is These Kanye Fans Don't Know Who Paul McCartney Is, And That's Okay These Kanye Fans Don't Know Who Paul McCartney Is, And That's Okay Kanye West and Sir Paul McCartney collaborated on a new track. You'll totally believe what happened next. Read More . The underlying thought process seems to be “I like good music so any music I dislike is bad. Anyone who disagrees with my choices is clearly an idiot — how else could they like Justin Bieber? I don’t like him and I have excellent music taste.”

The same thought pattern is at the route of why people hate tech companies and their products.

It’s 2015, Nothing Really Sucks Anymore

Right now, the number of truly terrible tech products from major manufacturers is very small. There are no bad Apple products. Ignoring Samsung’s low-end offerings, all their recent phones are pretty great. Both OS X and Windows 10 are excellent operating systems. While I love my iPhone 5S, and I’ve no plans to swap it for a Galaxy S6, that doesn’t mean the S6 sucks. It just means that the features that the S6 offers don’t appeal to me.

duty_calls

This is the crux of it. Too often people conflate “I don’t see the appeal of Product X” with “Product X has no appealing qualities”. Somehow, in the crazy neural connections of our brain, gets turned into “I hate Product X”. But feeling hatred towards a product or company is absolutely ridiculous.

My Favorite Feature Is Your Most Annoying Bug

Everyone has different needs when it comes to tech products. I’m a photographer, so I do a lot of image editing in Photoshop and Lightroom. A Chromebook just won’t work for me. Dave Parrack, who writes Tech News Digest, works almost exclusively from one. Even though I could never use a Chromebook as my main machine, I can see why Dave does: it works for him.

Every other tech product breaks down this way. If you don’t understand why someone would spend $10,000 on a gold Apple Watch, that’s okay – a gold Apple Watch just isn’t for you (it’s for Chinese billionaires Is Apple Betting Big on The Chinese Market? Is Apple Betting Big on The Chinese Market? The $10,000 Apple Watch makes no sense...if you're ignoring China. Apple isn't ignoring China. Read More ). That doesn’t mean the Apple Watch Edition sucks, just that its features and price don’t appeal to you. The same is true of the other Apple Watches — I’m happy to spend $400 on a Sport model, while other people aren’t. Just because you think a product is overpriced doesn’t mean anyone who buys it is wasting money. They value it differently. Thinking anything else is just the FAE in action.

AppleComment

Any time you don’t see what someone could like about a product, the chances are you aren’t the target customer. Step back, and put yourself in the shoes of someone who is. You might love the customisability of Android, while other people (like me) care far more about consistent design. Unless you can overcome the FAE, and think about smartphones from a perspective like mine, you’re forever doomed to dismiss all Apple fans out of hand. And that’s too bad.

Hate Isn’t Worth It

Even if you really can’t come to see things from someone else’s point of view, or genuinely think they’re mistaken, getting wound up about it just isn’t worth it. There is a lot you can learn about yourself, and what is meaningful to you, from things you dislike. One of my favourite film critics, the all-caps wielding Film Crit Hulk, puts it best in his article on why you should never hate a movie. Hulk recounts a chance meeting with the director Quentin Tarantino that changed how he viewed movies.

Tarantino told Hulk:

Never, under any circumstances, hate a movie. It won’t help you and it’s a waste of time… There’s plenty of reasons to not to like a movie. But if you hate them? Meaning if let them bother you? Then they’ll do nothing but bother you. Who wants to be bothered? There’s so many better things to do with movies… Bad things can be so much more interesting than just bad.

The article is worth reading in full and is relevant to any kind of criticism. Getting upset and angry that someone likes something you don’t is a recipe for unhappiness.

Closing Out

It’s all to easy to forget that everyone else on the planet thinks and feels the same way we do. The fundamental attribution error underpins how we think about other people’s motivations and actions. When they do something we disagree with, even if it is just buy a phone we don’t like, our all-too-fallible brains try to dismiss them as fools. This leads to so many unnecessary arguments online. Just maybe, other people have considered something equally deeply and come to a different conclusion.

There is no point to hating tech companies and their products. Getting upset because someone is buying something you’re not interested in benefits no one. Different people like and need different things — it’s what makes us human.

What do you think? Is there ever a good reason to hate a tech product, the company that makes it, or the people that buy it?
Image Credits: Furious frustrated Via Shutterstock, XKCD.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

  1. mark
    July 20, 2017 at 12:37 pm

    i just wasted part of my life

    • Neros-uncle
      August 1, 2017 at 9:50 am

      We are not aware of wasting our time, but it happens all the time. What sense can there be in hating an operating system that others "just adore". We all know MS Windoze is reliable to an extent but I've had all the problems experienced by the mainstream, both with MS and iMac but more recently with various flavours of LINUX based systems. Mint V17 is not as flexible as previous Ubuntu V14 but has served well for as long as support holds out.
      That's the great thing with LINUX bases they remain a constant supply of entertainment for variety as well as functionality. For those requiring the (product) support (at any cost) by the big names, they are absolutely essential for business users as an element of the cost is offset by their profits. Non business users are not tied to a regime and can have a lot of "enjoyment" with the Linux bases which also give the more casual user some insight and experience of how to select what suits them.
      I have 2 Windows laptops, (work and play), 1 iMac desktop (photo editing) and 1 Android tablet/pad for travel. Also refuse to part with my Quad core Medion desktop, once with the disastrous VISTA, now been through 5 versions of LINUX and still an excellent workhorse, particularly for Media transfer. Variety IS definitely the spice of life! Don't knock it till you've tried it.