Bullying isn’t about the net result, but the process. It doesnt’t matter if the post won’t be seen by many people, or that it won’t last forever. The only thing that matters is that you see it. Having a person, or worse a group of people, attack you day in, day out, without fail, it grinds away at you.

I agree that ignoring them doesn’t work, but, as another commenter pointed out, responding just feeds the trolls.

That being said there are things that can be done. There are at least two organisations on the net that are combating cyber bullying, and every social network has content reporting. People need to be educated about these.

Another thing that needs to happen is to teach equality. Not just as part of policy, but really engage people. This not only makes bullies more aware if the effects if their actions, but may prevent their need to bully. Most bully because they feel inadequate, so a more accepting environment can help them too.

Before there are any replies of the “OMG Cyberbullying causes suicide” sort, remember this: Cyberbullying doesn’t kill people; it’s their reaction that does.

Also, I thought cyber bullying was a thing mostly for teens and kids. Do you know what demographics this site attracts. I’m curious.

Unfortunately, all too often there isn’t anyone in the bully-ee’s life who can “soothe the nerves.” This happens a lot with LGBT individuals, especially teens, for whom there isn’t acceptance in the home and none either in the outside world. This being an election year, it appalls me and frightens me that there are people making public policy decisions that do amount to nationwide discrimination, bullying, and even downright abuse. The last thing people need is to be told they’re worthless at home, further at work or school, and then not even treated as equals under the idiotic puritanical laws of this country.

Speaking of which, point well taken about SEO keywords outranking the bully. :-D Just search for Santorum and you’ll know what I mean. ;-)