Themole Spyware

How can I tell if the “bosspy” spyware is on my iPhone 4?

13 Jan 2013
iphone 4
Safari 6
13 Jan 2013 | iphone 4 | Safari 6

I’m afraid my lover is spying on me and can see all my chats using spyware I’ve heard of called “bosspy,” how can I check for it?